In this post David talks about having an off-topic or tangency forum.
That whirring sound was me blinking rapidly at the screen.
I was kind of hoping that David would have started this new thread rather than saying "Maybe a separate discussion tone and whether we should have any non-gaming threads, or a non-gaming forum?" in another thread. Anyway, here it is.
I really, really think we should never, ever have an off-topic or tangency forum on here. Like, ever. Are we here to read about each other's social lives, or thoughts on last night's TV, or re-affirm our place in the social heirarchy on here? Are we here to talk about things that _aren't_ games?
Hey, if anyone wants to shoot the breeze, no problem. There's a load of fora out there: StoryGames, theRPGsite, RPGnet, livejournal, slashdot, Facebook, Bebo, PieandBovril, or start your own.
When people come here they should see games in development, actual play, solving problems with games and gaming, an atmosphere of friendly and charitable collaboration.
Now, sure we get the odd clearly off-topic message at the moment: "Happy New Year" or "Congratulations on getting married". But these are few and far between (and for the love of Paddington don't anyone post a laundry list of previous posts categorizing them as on/off topic). Fine, I'm not saying we should drag any posts like that out the back and shoot them, but if we're careful we shouldn't be posting them a lot.
The site already has a high rate of new posts and I, for one, don't want it diluted with off-topic posts. And what would they achieve? Re-affirm that we all belong here? That we sort-of know each other? Look, if you want to be short and to the point in your posts that's OK. If you want to be more friendly and genteel in your posts that's OK too. But at least do this in posts that are on-topic. Otherwise, why post at all?
Neil nailed the site in this post here.
- a warm and friendly yet working atmosphere
- true support for game designers
- a collaborative sharing mentality
- real successful small press experience
- a UK focus but an international point of view
If anything, trying to post about things off-topic in an attempt to fit in here will have directly the opposite effect.


I agree, with caveats
Submitted by Graham W on Sat, 19/01/2008 - 13:00.
I agree I wouldn't want a Tangency forum.
To be clear, I don't think chatting and socialising is necessarily bad for a forum. Story Games gets along quite nicely, on the edge between working and chatting.
But I do think it's a choice. If we have socialising, we'll be less work-focussed. I'd prefer to focus on work.
I also think a bit of chatting is OK. Like in a friendly meeting at work: it's OK to make a joke, or respond to one, but then we all go "Anyway..." and get back to the subject at hand.
My guide for that is the "two posts" thing. In a thread about scheduling a convention, it's OK for Andrew to say, after saying which slots he'd like, "...actually, I'll take any slot that gets me away from Graham". Then I can say "THAT WORKS FOR ME TOO". But then we all get back to topic.
(People are welcome to disagree).
Graham
Tangency is a fucking noose round rpg.net's neck
Submitted by Matt on Sat, 19/01/2008 - 13:22.
So no, I don't think we should have one. There are plenty of other places to talk trash. Not here. It diverts energy, sucks life and devalues the site. I've seen too many other sites destroyed by people slowly drifting away from the point so that the signal to noise ratio becomes unbearable.
I also think anybody who does want such a thing should re-assess there reasons for being here.
As Graham says, you can be entertaining and contribute at the same time with ease. If you can't, I suggest that writing RPG books is probably not the career for you.
-Matt
Realms Publishing
Devil's Advocate
Submitted by Destriarch on Sat, 19/01/2008 - 19:46.
Personally, I don't think a tangency forum would make as much difference as people seem to think. We come here to discuss our games, and I don't see that changing even if there is a place for off-topic banter. However from that point of view I don't think it would hurt so much to have one either. Some of the best ideas arise from some of the strangest conversations. And if people don't want to see the tangency thread, they don't go to the tangency thread. I rarely go to the RPG net one for instance, but I like to dip in now and again and have gotten some good ideas from there in the past, even though the chatter has nothing to do with RPGs.
I think everyone is getting just a touch paranoid, assuming that if the same features that occur on the RPG Net forums are introduced here, we'll get the same problems. I don't believe that RPG Net's faults have that much to do with the forum's format, and I'd want to see really compelling evidence before changing my mind on that.
Of course this is rather a moot point. If nobody else wants a tangency forum, then we won't get one. I could care less about the subject, but I'm not that fussed. If I want tangency I can go to RPG Net. 'Course that does mean some people going to RPG net who might otherwise come here because they can get everything they want there, but I don't suppose TCE is about quantity of visitors. The question really is do we want more people visiting the site, or do we want only a very precise type of person visiting? Neither is right, neither is wrong, just different.
Ash
So we are agreed then: NO
Submitted by Rich Stokes on Sat, 19/01/2008 - 20:46.
So we are agreed then:
NO FUCKING "TANGENCY/MISC/OTHER/OFF TOPIC/PASTRY" FORUM ON THIS SITE.
Banter is ace. Irrelevant hreads about how cool "The Lost Room" is aren't.
Destriarch, feel free to post flippant comments in threads to people you feel you know well enough to get away with it. Grahams guidelines are pretty much on the money there, just don't de-rail a thread with it.
In the spirit of self-moderation...
Submitted by Graham W on Sat, 19/01/2008 - 22:07.
...this is a good time to:
a. Recognise that people feel strongly about this subject and
b. Recognise that arguments on both sides are valid
c. Be careful of posting inflammatory things (including those look-how-reasonable-I'm-being-by-the-way-you're-a-tosser sideswipes that I do so well)
d. Breathe before responding.
God, that was weird. I feel dirty, like I just asked everyone to group hug.
Graham
How many people make an agreement?
Submitted by Destriarch on Sun, 20/01/2008 - 09:17.
So we are agreed then:
Dunno, does five respondees represent a quorum?
Ash
I'm thinking we'll get more responses during the week...
Submitted by Gregor Hutton on Sun, 20/01/2008 - 12:32.
...for instance Malcolm may be back in Wellington from his camping trip this week. So let's see how it goes.
Nope
Submitted by Neil Gow on Sun, 20/01/2008 - 17:00.
Not only are there other choices available for this sort of interaction but it potentially dilutes the focus of the site. If I really wanted to discuss the future of the Scotland football team post-MacLeish with Gregor and Iain, I could and should do it elsewhere. Not here. It doesn't further the aims of the site in a way that cannot be done elsewhere - therefore no need.
Hell, if it was my decision I would have all of these admin discussions not appear on the front page of the site at all. They could still be publically read under recent posts and at the open admin forum but I see no reason for them to be front and centre on the sites main page.
Then again that could be the control freak in me coming out.
Neil
Take the King's shilling at http://www.omnihedron.co.uk/dutyandhonour/
Forum Dilution
Submitted by Destriarch on Sun, 20/01/2008 - 17:19.
Not only are there other choices available for this sort of interaction but it potentially dilutes the focus of the site.
I would consider this more of a concern if there were already forum areas on the site that didn't relate to the site's focus. As it stands, pretty much every forum topic is directly related to the act of publishing RPGs. A single off-topic thread covering every possible other subject wouldn't be much of a dilution. It'd be, what, one part in seventeen? Hardly enough to taste.
Ash
Hey no real argument from
Submitted by David Donachie on Sun, 20/01/2008 - 20:59.
Hey no real argument from me, it wasn't an idea I was wedded too, it just seemed that the attitude on the other thread was going very much towards "we are here to work ... no off-topic posts ever!" and I didn't like the sound of that from what I understand the spirit of the CE should be.
If we can have a little banter, a few off-topic posts here and there, and not take it too seriously (while nevertheless keeping it useful) then that suits me, no tangency needed.
http://www.solipsist-rpg.com/
I agree to the negative
Submitted by Iain McAllister on Sun, 20/01/2008 - 22:17.
I agree that we should not have a tangency thread. If I want to talk about other stuff I will simply call the person concerned or AIM them in some way or form. This site is for games and about games. Graham's comments are pretty much on the money:the occasional aside is fine but too much is just starying into rpg.net territory.
Cheers
Iain
Mob Justice now available!
'The Giant Brain':Small games, big ideas.
No. Chance,
Submitted by Malcolm Craig on Sun, 20/01/2008 - 22:45.
As Gregor said, back from my camping trip.
Of topic? No. Others have said the same thing including the details that I would add, so I'll simply leave it with the fact that do no want to see such a forum here.
Thanks
Malcolm
Contested Ground Studios
Shadows
Submitted by Destriarch on Mon, 21/01/2008 - 09:04.
Fair enough, but I do think everyone is jumping at shadows. It's no major loss.
Ash
Good point
Submitted by Graham W on Mon, 21/01/2008 - 10:15.
Not only are there other choices available for this sort of interaction but it potentially dilutes the focus of the site.
Nicely put, Neil. We're here to work, not for idle social chat.
By the way, it's your birthday, right? Happy birthday! Have a drink on me!
Graham